T. Belman. I am in the middle of watching this show. I find it entertaining but disturbing. Yes Julia is a disaffected Orthodox Jew who has left the fold for freedom. For her, freedom is the highest value. Anything goes it would appear. And I am sure that there are many orthodox women who, like her, bristle at the restrictions. On the other hand there are many who rejoice in them and their roles as mothers and custodians of a good Jewish home.
So this show showcases her values and not the values of the orthodox community which itself is not monolithic. The Modern Orthodox follow the 613 mitzvat and also go to university and are not isolated Then there are the Hareidi who don’t want to have intercourse with the outside world which precludes them from university and and many jobs.
As a person who has lived in both worlds, I can attest to the fact that many if not most orthodox love their life and their values. For them serving God is the highest value and such service is considered liberating.
“Before you judge the show, maybe you might want to watch the show?” Haart responded to those who say the reality TV series is cheap shots against Orthodoxy.
By SHIRA HANAU/JTA JULY 17, 2021 21:37

JULIA HAART in ‘My Unorthodox Life.’
The day “My Unorthodox Life” premiered on Netflix, its subject Julia Haart was frustrated by the negative reviews — especially those from Jews who live the way she once did.
“Before you judge the show, maybe you might want to watch the show?” Haart told the Jewish Telegraphic Agency on Wednesday, responding to those who say the reality TV series is only the latest in a series of pop culture cheap shots against Orthodoxy.<
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